I was going through a very difficult time with a family member that left me feeling overwhelmed and helpless. As I was serving in church, the Holy Spirit spoke to me, that God will give me the strength to get through this, that only God can change this person in my family. I found that I was trying to change him, but this is something only God can do.
Every day I surrender this to God as it's not my battle. I know now that God is with me and He leads and guides me through these battles.